The Ectoparasites

When a writer asks two sets of opposite species of mankind what is love….

All the couples- Kuch kuch hota hai. (Something something happens…)

All the singles- Kuch nahi hota hai. (Nothing happens.)

All the couples- Oh God another hypocrite who can’t find love. Typical over action

All the singles- At least we don’t fuck others feeling to pass time because we appreciate our time on our goals

All the couples- A simple geek psychology. At the end of the day you are nothing but A+ category meat available at shadhi.com and perfect for arranged marriages

All the singles- At least scholarships better than relationships. We earn it with our hard work

Both the groups gets interrupted by the Writer snoring …………………


I am sure all the singles in the house have been bombarded by the stupid questions- Why are you single? Get out more ,you are wasting your beautiful youth. I can’t believe you are saving your V card in 21st century. Probably had wing man friends trying to set you up with a hot date on sympathy end of season sale handouts. Let me tell you it certainly does gets out of hand.

I am cool with all the couples and singles. Yes love is a wonderful feeling and so is the fact of waiting for the right pal. At the end of the day its there own personal choices. Let me elaborate on the term personal choices. Look the 21th century hierarchy of dating is a different level of understanding.

If any one observed the tittle” Ectoparasites”. Being a science background student it my moral duty to explain- it means parasites on parasite. How is it related to this context you might be wondering.

Hold right there. All in good time. Think properly students who are already dependent on parents are wasting there energy, time, efforts and money( dates and presents don’t come cheep you know). Yes pun intended parasite on parasite leeching out of each other. Look modern relations have become like a mutual understanding and more of the friends with benefits category.

There are also the geek category that are after career, job and just too pair of goodie shoes people who do as they are told. Maybe there are not ready to take the risk of trusting someone or overwhelmed by the concept of modern relationship or maybe at a emotional level just not ready with the idea of loving someone. It might be due to that they grew up seeing the lack of love between there parents that they dont know what real love is.

At the end of the day its there own personal choices. Love is a beautiful concept of sharing and getting to the other person at such a extent you will take the bullet for them. Love has no barriers and it often turns us blind. Well I hope you enjoyed reading. Do let me know your thoughts

©G.V Raghavasree

46 Comments Add yours

  1. Anonymous says:

    True……in the blog ….the words r not only words….but emotion of every single ……
    Be indipendent ……dnt be like ectoparasites

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    1. dessertflower5 says:

      Thankyou so much for dropping by with your kind words. 🙂

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  2. Raj says:

    U r way writing is osm……,♥

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    1. dessertflower5 says:

      Thankyou so much Raju Garru. Means a lot🙂✌

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  3. Arooba says:

    Good one 🙂
    For me,Love is something that can’t be explain in words once you experience it. 😉

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    1. dessertflower5 says:

      Thankyou Aroona. Well I lack experience in this department 😂. Well I guess time can only answer✌😉

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      1. Arooba says:

        Yeah it will 😉

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  4. Kellie says:

    Great post and agree, it is each person’s own choices 👌😊

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    1. dessertflower5 says:

      Thankyou so much. Good day ✌🌸

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  6. Beautiful write up – love is absolutely a personal choice – and can happen in the weirdest of setup

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    1. dessertflower5 says:

      Thankyou so much. Yes you got me man. Hahah well love is a blind tract m you never know when you will be in that rollocoster. Good day✌🙂

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      1. Lol. Stay blessed and beautiful. May you find what you are seeking 😀

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        1. dessertflower5 says:

          Hahah. Thankyou for your kind words as always. Hahah what I seek I think is already a extinct species 😂😂. Good day to you 🌸✌

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          1. Lol. I hope you still get it. World is a mysterious place. 🌸😊

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            1. dessertflower5 says:

              Hahah. World is a mysterious place indeed. Well I guess my bali ka bhakra is out somewhere in the world😂😂

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              1. Haha. Best wishes 😊

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                1. dessertflower5 says:

                  🙂✌

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  7. To be able to make our own choices, makes us individuals. beautiful 💫🌟

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    1. dessertflower5 says:

      Very true. Thankyou so much for dropping by with your kind words and taking time to read my work 🙂✌🌸

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  8. dessertflower5 says:

    Thankyou so much. Yes I will consider it. Good day 🌸

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  9. Nawazish says:

    Wow!! It is so well written!!💕💕

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  10. dessertflower5 says:

    Thankyou so much. Means a lot

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  11. dessertflower5 says:

    Thankyou so much 🙂❤

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  12. swabby429 says:

    Philosophically speaking, we’re all ectoparasites of some sort. We live off of each other, along with other animals, plants, and the Earth.

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    1. dessertflower5 says:

      Yes we do some how. Thankyou you got my major point. Appreciate you taking time to read this.

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  13. Nimish says:

    Avoid using curse words once a 79 year old USA army retired blogger uncle told me ….Since then I have not used curse word …..But what the fuck … Chinese virus killed him

    This is beautiful write up😊🌼❤ hope you find your bali ka bakra today on occasion of Bakreed😂

    I like and most of the times agree cent percent with your words….🌼

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    1. dessertflower5 says:

      lol. Thx for the joke man. Appreciate your kind words.

      Hahah my bali ka bakra is probably somewhere in the world 😂😂. Good day ✌

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      1. Nimish says:

        Very bad joke it was I know…Well I will write sarcasm today …yayyy you will ROFL boss😆😆🌼❤

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        1. dessertflower5 says:

          Hahah look forward to reading it.HAND(Have a nice day 😛)✌

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  14. Rageshree says:

    Very nice post!❤️ I’m single and my friends are also single so yeah #relatable😂
    Also, I hate the V card comment, I mean chillllll. My V card, I’ll lose it when I want!

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    1. dessertflower5 says:

      Thankyou so much Rageshree. Hahah I know it one hell of a tourture. It’s always good to see a old friend dropping by. Have a great day ✌🌸💞

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  15. Now I want to feel love again.

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  16. dessertflower5 says:

    Hahah lol. The world gives what you least expect. Good day ✌🌸

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  17. Love your thoughts, but being a writer myself, the lack of correct spelling and grammar got in the way. I hope you don’t mind my correcting your errors so the next time you won’t make them? Possessive “their,” not “there.” (As in, “There are two ways to do this.”} OR (“Their love”). You are talented and deserve to have the right tools to bring that talent to fruition. I would like to help you if you will let me. Check your work for spelling (title has one “t”) before posting. Your work deserves the best effort. Appreciate what you are doing so that others will. You deserve the best. Always remember that.

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    1. dessertflower5 says:

      Thankyou so much . It really meas a lot. I would love that. Appreciate you putting your hand out to help me. Your words have really touched me. Have a great day

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    1. dessertflower5 says:

      Thankyou so much 🙂

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  19. dessertflower5 says:

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  22. dessertflower5 says:

    Glad you liked this ☺️

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  23. craig lock says:

    Reblogged this on My Thoughts and commented:

    Hi Raghavasree

    All the best with your writing
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  24. Thank you so much😊

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